Women have some common rules that they should substance to entering the dating arena. Now I know everyone is different so don’t take things too seriously here. There has been some debate over literature published recently that sets out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or woman if she is lesbian).

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider’s 1995 bestseller “The Rules,” explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. Some groups would be aggressive but the fact is when we grow up there are a predefined set of dating rules. All that happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21 and then find we need to relearn them.

There are things that we make occur that excite, create interest, confound, etc. Dating is a long test of compatibility. Are we perfectly matched? If we just threw ourselves together then the chances of long term happiness may be reduced. And yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list. Many arranged marriages work too interestingly.

Each society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The matter here is that when girls date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you an advantage at the beginning. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adjust rules and add them as you feel inclined.

You can divide rules out into two parts, dating and online dating. Both areas have distinct rules that a woman should follow for dating success.

General Dating Rules

• All the time look great, whatever your income. Beautiful hair and some makeup will still turn his head. You have the benefit, you are the woman, so look your best as you could meet a potential guy anywhere at any time.

• Never make public information you don’t have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.

• Keep dates short but your men interested. Less is always more.

• Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a taxicab.

• Make sure you receive flowers, if he doesn’t know what a florist is, leave him.

• Never sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.

• Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a girls prerogative.

• Never be accessible when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying. If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.

• Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacrosanct and not accessible for dates.

• Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.

• Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practice on a mirror if you have to.

• Never ever talk about prior boyfriends and particularly their ability in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.

• Never presume anything about your date until you decide to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking

• If any man shows the smallest amount signs of possessiveness or uncertainty run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.

• If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace leave him

• Never talk too much about your father and how your date actions up in evaluation.

• Never ever come across as too available or too anxious, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the pursue remember.

• If the guy in the corner is beautiful go and get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may look at him leave with someone else.

• You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.

• If you want a baby, don’t mention it on the first few dates.

• Never criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.

Online Dating Rules

• Always let them come to you, don’t chase via email

• Block anyone who annoys you immediately

• Place the best & most vamps photo up you can find

• Don’t reply to instant messages with clever opening lines

• Remain distant and let yourself be chased

• Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt

• Never provide you true email or phone details to the man

• Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn

• Make sure your login name is eye-catching and sexy as well as enigmatic

• Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best

• Do not suppose the man you are talking to is insolvent or sad

• Never ever reply to emails at weekends, wait until a weekday

• Never affirm how good your sexual performance is in your profile

• If you don’t want to date married men spell it out in your profile

• A man who doesn’t reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored

• Make sure your humor levels come across in text

• Do not chat to hundreds of men at once, the delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Man will be off.

• Don’t even think about misrepresenting your size or description.

• Come across as cool and difficult for best results

Always remember girls that you are a sexy desirable woman and the world is yours. Always let men do the chasing and always let you be the chooser. Always stay safe and never risk yourself for the sake of attending a date.

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